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S2E5 : Soul Sister

Season 2 : return to Kerala

Episode 5 : Soul Sister

So by now I Guess you mi8 have known all people in the cscf group . If not read the last post .

To Understand this you need a back story to my childhood . Take a noir look I was born in a family where non of my cousins in my family were my sister our like from the childhood I wanted a sister in my family . I went to the extent to ask my mother that y couldn’t you have a baby girl . I asked it Because I didn’t know the process .

Back to the present I have a group with three sisters for me , wait . No two because Neetu Chechi just went she has classes .So Now just Princy Chechi and Jima Chechi . So a brief detail about both personality .

Princy Chechi is the person who is going to be the first Marine biologist in the fishermen community and Jima Chechi is the person selected tri represent the young Leaders of India and she has been received a honorary fellowship in Canada . And is quite a big of a socialist . Just for info. I was still in my arrival state so I didn’t used to get enough courage to speak up . And also when I do the used to hear it as another worldly language.

As Princy Chechi used to be very busy and all . Jima used to spend time with me and ask about me . I used tell here my experience she shared hers . Then I felt a quite a bit comfortable . We both kinda because in our own a team . I used to support her nomatter. And she supported me .

Then there were times we used to stay Hungry just because we used to be lazy .so slowly I just used to spend time talking doing my stuff and also spend time not studying so they had to set me up with tuitions .

( Yeah I am doing 12th )

She told that she knows a few teacher who would teach me but they were at ‘Puthiyatura ‘ which means the new shore and she lived there . She chucleked and nostalgically told about her place . And it sounds awesome .and real . I promise that i would go there one day sure then we went back to cook food by we I mean she coocked as I watched .

So lack of proper timed food and me not getting the atmosphere to study they decided me to move . Now the question was where. I couldn’t go to my family as I would not have a atmosphere of studying . And I know no friends up here. And can’t stay Alone cause dad doesn’t want that. So thats when Soul’sister told she would take me to her home and settled me a tuition there. But I was sceptical about it and was excited too.

So I am confused weather I would go or not ? Comment

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S2E1 . Travel Vibes

Season 2 : return to Kerala

Episode 1: Travel Vibes

27th July , 2018

Setted up and been transferred to go to Kerala to join CSCF and to complete my meaningless education certification I was lead upto leave Gujarat and Return to my Roots Kerala .

As a careing and loving father, my dad who knew not much about the adventures I had been through . Made me meet as much of people who were traveling to Kerala in the same train . I met alot of people who existed in , Jamnagar But never met me . Giving me an idea about the unsociable behaviour I had . My dad felt he had settled me in comfort but I wish he understood my introverted behaviour telling me I was going to be in a very bad situation. Dealing with too many people . But it wasn’t too long that the train left and I found no one had given a shit about what my dad said . But I sure was at ease .

But i met a young man like me we talked about life and found we had a few alot common and intersection of interest because we just wanted to feel we were connected . So then we weren’t gonna be alone for sure .we had both had in total two seats but both were far . And as my stuffs were safe and settled I took my food and shifted to his seat.

The first night passed as a introductory night. But the second day was something that started to get a vibe of true traveling . Here by I tell you I was and am just 18 by the time it was in the train and we were the socially cool people ” freaks ” so we saw a couple of girls traveling just by us and we knew it this would Change our conversation . As we were talking about our experience about this certain parts of our life I found that we were almost the same but as I was a year older than him my ego hurt and as the girls kinda showing the socially acceptable signs of interest . I boasted about my experience. And I was set to prove him I was the master .

So we were standing just by the door those girls kinda followed us and we were now confused weather They were here for him or they were interested in me . So we did it alternatively . And guess what I won .😎 . ( Two sec for rejoice ) . So as being a higher ranked than him ( he said that ) . I was to initiate the talks . So I did it .

But that was the game Changer it completely changed the whole travel started as a small time pass game we . Met the two most amazing souls in my life it was the first time they had been traveling in the train and were courageous . I know I mi8 sound like a prejudice guy but No . Sometimes it really not safe for girls to travel and but yah they did it and ya maybe alot of girls do it . But it was something new for me at that time . They were medicine students came to Kerala for a scholarship . They were the few lucky people who could go there . And they were proud of it and they enjoyed it alot . So we shared contacts too .

In this travel vibe I just broke my mental shell of Anti social behaviour and made friends .
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Titles on blog story #1 Turning Point

Episode 1 -My Life in Gujarat
Episode 2 – The Reason to Change
Episode – 3 The Fear of Isolation
Episode 4 – procrastinating Frustration
Episode 5 -Father and Me

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S1 Ep 5 : Father and Me

# Turning Point #

Episode 5

###Father and Me ###

In two different ways a father and sons life is sacred .
First
I don’t know about your but I consider my father way more like a super human than anyone else . My father had and has a lot of wishes and dreams just like me he sacrificed his dreams for mine .( It gets more complicated ahead ) I used to feel like what ever he does is in good will for me . Either I could never know or maybe I not understand . But that all started to collapse . When I thought that I can’t fullfill his dreams or even mine if I think like he did or he did not . That’s when or infact sometimes I just wonder is it my inside Rebel trying to do the same just in a different way .
I sometimes wonder that he is wrong and sometimes think he is the ultimate truth. But he is not both actually he is also a tired hard-working but young man with dreams .

Jezz thinking of me and dad I get too deep . Enough but the second . Topic is something .

Second
It’s sacred Because it’s like the Netflix series of Scared games . Like the character complication is so deep . Just wondered the tactics of an intelligent dad trying to convince the son for any thing is just like the Ramayanas and Mahabharats tactics of hidden patterns of life and how it convinces .it is a battlefield dad gaytonde and poor Sartaj . And in this game some Times Both fail or sometime just the stronger one wins .

It really is a big confusing game of experience and knowledge .
In my case I have done the sacrifices too I know I mi8 loose yet I took his advice he . Will never understand and maybe we will Loose then I just wonder why not we loose together . Sometimes I just wish that me and my dad should do it but . I just can’t open up . To him maybe he Will understand maybe I mi8 be wrong but I just want to begin with my dad and start to do what we both love to i know he can . I just wish he would understand too .
But ri8 now it seems he is gonna sacrifice for my dreams . I don’t actually wanna shatter either ones dream . But .
Wait I don’t wanna get emotional .
This time he made me convince to come to Kerala and explore up here . I don’t regret his this decision a bit .
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