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S1 Ep 5 : Father and Me

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Episode 5

###Father and Me ###

In two different ways a father and sons life is sacred .
First
I don’t know about your but I consider my father way more like a super human than anyone else . My father had and has a lot of wishes and dreams just like me he sacrificed his dreams for mine .( It gets more complicated ahead ) I used to feel like what ever he does is in good will for me . Either I could never know or maybe I not understand . But that all started to collapse . When I thought that I can’t fullfill his dreams or even mine if I think like he did or he did not . That’s when or infact sometimes I just wonder is it my inside Rebel trying to do the same just in a different way .
I sometimes wonder that he is wrong and sometimes think he is the ultimate truth. But he is not both actually he is also a tired hard-working but young man with dreams .

Jezz thinking of me and dad I get too deep . Enough but the second . Topic is something .

Second
It’s sacred Because it’s like the Netflix series of Scared games . Like the character complication is so deep . Just wondered the tactics of an intelligent dad trying to convince the son for any thing is just like the Ramayanas and Mahabharats tactics of hidden patterns of life and how it convinces .it is a battlefield dad gaytonde and poor Sartaj . And in this game some Times Both fail or sometime just the stronger one wins .

It really is a big confusing game of experience and knowledge .
In my case I have done the sacrifices too I know I mi8 loose yet I took his advice he . Will never understand and maybe we will Loose then I just wonder why not we loose together . Sometimes I just wish that me and my dad should do it but . I just can’t open up . To him maybe he Will understand maybe I mi8 be wrong but I just want to begin with my dad and start to do what we both love to i know he can . I just wish he would understand too .
But ri8 now it seems he is gonna sacrifice for my dreams . I don’t actually wanna shatter either ones dream . But .
Wait I don’t wanna get emotional .
This time he made me convince to come to Kerala and explore up here . I don’t regret his this decision a bit .
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S1 Ep 4 : The Fear of Isolation

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Post date September 13, 2018
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### The Fear of Isolation ###
Isolation used to be my heavenly state for me that was when I used to feel connected to the universe better . That was a joke I have to specify because somepeople don’t get sarcasm . I used to always keep myself alone atleast in my childhood sometimes just because I had no other choice but I owned it . I owned being alone and stay alway from people .

But it is not something we could always have it cause nothing good in life stays for ever and all good things Have to come to an end. I started to mingle along with my classmates and my brother when around I was in class 2nd . (Don’t judge me I just and have an amazing eventual memory I remember events of my life . ) . Then I kinda liked and embraced the feeling of being socialised as you know the kids who lag in sleep are the once who sleep the most in colleges and the bully becomes the picked one . Just like that I started making friends I became attached to my friends .
But again “I told u this good times always end up fast in life ” I got transferred to another place this time I I thought who would work hard and make friends and then one day again to loose them . So I became introverted again and this time it was bad .
As I was in my coming teens I started Feeling depressed and the feeling of not be able to perform better in studies depressed me more . And unfortunately the principal was my father’s friend. And he tell my dad my dad being a good human takes his words for consideration and tells me . He used to make me give impositions luckily I loved writing so I took it in a positive way but slowly it started getting bored because I always need some kind of change in my impositions . And it was all boring .
And all this used to happen infront of the class that i used to isolate myself . As I used to isolate myself the students used to hate me more when I used try mingle up.
That really isolated me alot harder than others part of my life . So while coming to Kerala I decided not to be isolated and not to let anyone isolated infront of me and so I made a few lot of friends .
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Season 1 : Turning Point

# Turning Point #

Episode : 2

### The Reason to Change ###
I don’t know if you do that or not but if someone tells me that I have changed alot then I’ll be like what nooo I never change . But inside I’ll be like wow she noticed about my hair got longer . ” No , she is not talking about my hair ” but she her self would Never know what is the change it us who have to figure it out and here’s a tip for u if someone says this just tell them that yah u r ri8 I have got meaner or say stuffs bad about yourself they’ll start praising you.
Change is not bad it’s essential to change . But make sure it’s a good change change like how I used to think that I had to change myself to do good. Stuffs . I have made many mistakes in life as growing up and I ain’t shy of it. Yeah I mean i have done that . I know what you guys are wondering yes I used to pee in my bed at night . And only if I had. Thought for myself that no it’s ok it’s that I am different from others and encouraged myself to do so I mi8 not be in this situation I am ri8 now . So jokes aside . It’s real if people don’t change Thier life style according to get better there Is no point of a better life .
I always loved change and I always had it in my DNA In fact I used to make my dad change my diper every now and then .
I have been through a lot of changes in my life some have been pleasant some just heart breaking. Some non affective some useless . If I want it to be more dramatic I could say that things get rough and when it gets rough u need to rumble through the hurdles that’s called change and all but no it’s simple as life essentials .
The latest change in my life has been of moving from Gujarat to Kerala . I have only been around very little Time in Kerala which is my birthplace and then I has to move to Gujarat . See just after my birth I faced change . Then now after many years of life like after I am 18 am back to Kerala .
I love that I have been lucky to spend time in Kerala and have a great time2 yeah . Where as being in a the same place and not able to explore musch places just because that u are been upto every corner make you explore the same stuffs again and again . That slowly tiers your egar . That’s why I needed CHANGE .
So hesitatingly I accepted my dad’s offer to become a part of a change in another society to get better .

Infact when I knew the change ill get on coming to Kerala will be of a great level it hit the best half of my life .
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Motivation in life

Human Brain is Something that keeps us living , Loving , Surviving andl Succeeding . For every human Brain there is always something or the other that we tend to search or achieve .

MOTIVATION

That’s what we call it but actually its a much more complicated thing to understand . I’ll make sure we all understand . Usually for a human body the brain sets us certain rewarding mechanics that when we complete a task we are bound to receive that works completely different in different human Body that we can either gain or inculcate through practice .

MOTIVE

What is that you do to toggle or induse the rewarding function in brain . This function is mainly formed in the earliest state of life where you are prone to receive the information as a informal context like . You mi8 never know that you are being lifted and thrown up in air just people laugh and smile to make you smile , that gives Your brain message of storing these information which then in future makes you a adventurist .

Just an example if that was the real case then most of the people would had been a adventurist of some sort . Just for explanation folks

Science of Motivation

Experiments done at Yale university on motivation for rats to do work .

Rat A- that is given enough food and is not hungry ( lets us take #sharmajikabeta )

Rat B – that is very hungry ( #middleclasskabeta )

Both are kept in a cage where food is given only when switch is pressed. But those are Rats and rats arn’t actually like Jerry so they are just not as smart as u .

Rat A ( #Sharmajikabeta ) as soon as kept in the cage considers sleeping as the cage is in a better condition for it as it was full

Rat B ( #middleclasskalaunda ) the hungry and active rat acts to trying to get out of the cage in attempt to find food hence after attempts and attempts it succeeds to find food .

( Note : here there was no father pushing for them so two minutes silence for that and if you have time just follow my page will be a grate help )

But in the next experiment all get successful because here enters experiments twist that is the scientist who is evil inside but smart electrocuted ( consider them as their mom for Indian readers ) RATS so that they both start doing something .

And the results were really amazing

The both rats found the switch in an amazing speed ( #momwindadloose )

Therefore mom , I am sorry ,

Therefore there are alot of reasons u could get motion use your poverty like an motivation like me if u are a #middleclasslaunda or just wait till u get ur life Kickstarted by your mom if u are like #sharmajikabeta

let’s take here an example of to understand process .

You walk by a roadside and find someone in need of help . Let us assume u are in Your mobile completely ” Busy ” and you avoid it . This won’t bring any kind of change in your blood flow and all those body function because u didn’t change . Let’s revise you are walking thinking about the all great possible things you could do to change your current situation of life and you see someone in need of help you will be forced by your mental state to do something different and get out of your comfort zone . This will give you the feeling to be doing something different and something that would reward You body of dopamine the happiness inducing drug in your body .

If you are Sharmaji ka beta comment down below did u get ur start or if u are from middle class family like me comment down #middleclasslaunda

To watch the video of the experiment hit the link below

#RatExperiment

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