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S1 Ep 4 : The Fear of Isolation

# Turning Point # 

### The Fear of Isolation ###
Isolation used to be my heavenly state for me that was when I used to feel connected to the universe better . That was a joke I have to specify because somepeople don’t get sarcasm . I used to always keep myself alone atleast in my childhood sometimes just because I had no other choice but I owned it . I owned being alone and stay alway from people . 

But it is not something we could always have it cause  nothing good in life stays for ever and all good things Have to come to an end.  I started to mingle along with my classmates and my brother when around I was in class 2nd . (Don’t judge me I just and have an amazing eventual memory I remember events of my life . ) . Then I kinda liked and embraced the feeling of being socialised as you know the kids who lag in sleep are the once who sleep the most in colleges and the bully becomes the picked one . Just like that I started making friends I became attached to my friends . 
But again “I told u this good times always end up fast in life ” I got transferred to another place this time I I thought who would work hard and make friends and then one day again to loose them . So I became introverted again and this time it was bad . 
As I was in my coming teens I started Feeling depressed and the feeling of not be able to perform better in studies depressed me more . And unfortunately the principal was my father’s friend. And he tell my dad my dad being a good human takes his words for consideration and tells me . He used to make me give impositions luckily I loved writing so I took it in a positive way  but slowly it started getting bored because I always need some kind of change in my impositions . And it was all boring . 
And all this used to happen infront of the class that i used to isolate myself . As I used to isolate myself the students used to hate me more when I used try mingle up.
That really isolated me alot harder than others part of my life . So while coming to Kerala I decided not to be isolated and not to let anyone isolated infront of me and so I made a few lot of friends . 
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Motivation in life

Human Brain is Something that keeps us living , Loving , Surviving andl Succeeding . For every human Brain there is always something or the other that we tend to search or achieve .

MOTIVATION

That’s what we call it but actually its a much more complicated thing to understand . I’ll make sure we all understand . Usually for a human body the brain sets us certain rewarding mechanics that when we complete a task we are bound to receive that works completely different in different human Body that we can either gain or inculcate through practice .

MOTIVE

What is that you do to toggle or induse the rewarding function in brain . This function is mainly formed in the earliest state of life where you are prone to receive the information as a informal context like . You mi8 never know that you are being lifted and thrown up in air just people laugh and smile to make you smile , that gives Your brain message of storing these information which then in future makes you a adventurist .

Just an example if that was the real case then most of the people would had been a adventurist of some sort . Just for explanation folks

Science of Motivation

Experiments done at Yale university on motivation for rats to do work .

Rat A- that is given enough food and is not hungry ( lets us take #sharmajikabeta )

Rat B – that is very hungry ( #middleclasskabeta )

Both are kept in a cage where food is given only when switch is pressed. But those are Rats and rats arn’t actually like Jerry so they are just not as smart as u .

Rat A ( #Sharmajikabeta ) as soon as kept in the cage considers sleeping as the cage is in a better condition for it as it was full

Rat B ( #middleclasskalaunda ) the hungry and active rat acts to trying to get out of the cage in attempt to find food hence after attempts and attempts it succeeds to find food .

( Note : here there was no father pushing for them so two minutes silence for that and if you have time just follow my page will be a grate help )

But in the next experiment all get successful because here enters experiments twist that is the scientist who is evil inside but smart electrocuted ( consider them as their mom for Indian readers ) RATS so that they both start doing something .

And the results were really amazing

The both rats found the switch in an amazing speed ( #momwindadloose )

Therefore mom , I am sorry ,

Therefore there are alot of reasons u could get motion use your poverty like an motivation like me if u are a #middleclasslaunda or just wait till u get ur life Kickstarted by your mom if u are like #sharmajikabeta

let’s take here an example of to understand process .

You walk by a roadside and find someone in need of help . Let us assume u are in Your mobile completely ” Busy ” and you avoid it . This won’t bring any kind of change in your blood flow and all those body function because u didn’t change . Let’s revise you are walking thinking about the all great possible things you could do to change your current situation of life and you see someone in need of help you will be forced by your mental state to do something different and get out of your comfort zone . This will give you the feeling to be doing something different and something that would reward You body of dopamine the happiness inducing drug in your body .

If you are Sharmaji ka beta comment down below did u get ur start or if u are from middle class family like me comment down #middleclasslaunda

To watch the video of the experiment hit the link below

#RatExperiment

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