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Hair Story

This is a written format of my feelings that changed my mind set regarding many things .

If you guys know me I am a person who is obsessed over my hair . Which I Don’t know why I am so obsessed over it . During my childhood I was always obsessed with the Manly stereotypes with awesome long hair . Like Hrithik Roshan , Rambo , the comic version of Thor , the Barbarians etc . So that made me feel like I need to get it when I grow up. But just like every coool thing school never accepted long hair boys . So I was stuck with short hair . My mom beIN a teacher and dad begin smart to always talk me out .

But lately I just visited ” Regional Cancer Center ” Trivandrum . And ya I am a ” thoughtful ” person means I just think and not act . So I saw many people with cancer some very old to kids .

See I know Cancer is curable and not a big deal in this day and age but still it take almost the important time of a persons life and God its miserable . I won’t just go over the Psychological thing that meses with the brain. Loneliness , pain , feeling of being left out hell goes on .

It’s not that you guys will say that ” jo , it’s Not that you haven’t heard about cancer patients the issues . And I am just trying to create content. ” I got hell lot of topics to cover but this is something I saw and just wanted to share with you .

By Jovinjith Kennedy

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Turning Point

Titles on blog story #1 Turning Point

Episode 1 -My Life in Gujarat
Episode 2 – The Reason to Change
Episode – 3 The Fear of Isolation
Episode 4 – procrastinating Frustration
Episode 5 -Father and Me

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S1 Ep 5 : Father and Me

# Turning Point #

Episode 5

###Father and Me ###

In two different ways a father and sons life is sacred .
First
I don’t know about your but I consider my father way more like a super human than anyone else . My father had and has a lot of wishes and dreams just like me he sacrificed his dreams for mine .( It gets more complicated ahead ) I used to feel like what ever he does is in good will for me . Either I could never know or maybe I not understand . But that all started to collapse . When I thought that I can’t fullfill his dreams or even mine if I think like he did or he did not . That’s when or infact sometimes I just wonder is it my inside Rebel trying to do the same just in a different way .
I sometimes wonder that he is wrong and sometimes think he is the ultimate truth. But he is not both actually he is also a tired hard-working but young man with dreams .

Jezz thinking of me and dad I get too deep . Enough but the second . Topic is something .

Second
It’s sacred Because it’s like the Netflix series of Scared games . Like the character complication is so deep . Just wondered the tactics of an intelligent dad trying to convince the son for any thing is just like the Ramayanas and Mahabharats tactics of hidden patterns of life and how it convinces .it is a battlefield dad gaytonde and poor Sartaj . And in this game some Times Both fail or sometime just the stronger one wins .

It really is a big confusing game of experience and knowledge .
In my case I have done the sacrifices too I know I mi8 loose yet I took his advice he . Will never understand and maybe we will Loose then I just wonder why not we loose together . Sometimes I just wish that me and my dad should do it but . I just can’t open up . To him maybe he Will understand maybe I mi8 be wrong but I just want to begin with my dad and start to do what we both love to i know he can . I just wish he would understand too .
But ri8 now it seems he is gonna sacrifice for my dreams . I don’t actually wanna shatter either ones dream . But .
Wait I don’t wanna get emotional .
This time he made me convince to come to Kerala and explore up here . I don’t regret his this decision a bit .
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Season 1 : Turning Point

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Episode : 2

### The Reason to Change ###
I don’t know if you do that or not but if someone tells me that I have changed alot then I’ll be like what nooo I never change . But inside I’ll be like wow she noticed about my hair got longer . ” No , she is not talking about my hair ” but she her self would Never know what is the change it us who have to figure it out and here’s a tip for u if someone says this just tell them that yah u r ri8 I have got meaner or say stuffs bad about yourself they’ll start praising you.
Change is not bad it’s essential to change . But make sure it’s a good change change like how I used to think that I had to change myself to do good. Stuffs . I have made many mistakes in life as growing up and I ain’t shy of it. Yeah I mean i have done that . I know what you guys are wondering yes I used to pee in my bed at night . And only if I had. Thought for myself that no it’s ok it’s that I am different from others and encouraged myself to do so I mi8 not be in this situation I am ri8 now . So jokes aside . It’s real if people don’t change Thier life style according to get better there Is no point of a better life .
I always loved change and I always had it in my DNA In fact I used to make my dad change my diper every now and then .
I have been through a lot of changes in my life some have been pleasant some just heart breaking. Some non affective some useless . If I want it to be more dramatic I could say that things get rough and when it gets rough u need to rumble through the hurdles that’s called change and all but no it’s simple as life essentials .
The latest change in my life has been of moving from Gujarat to Kerala . I have only been around very little Time in Kerala which is my birthplace and then I has to move to Gujarat . See just after my birth I faced change . Then now after many years of life like after I am 18 am back to Kerala .
I love that I have been lucky to spend time in Kerala and have a great time2 yeah . Where as being in a the same place and not able to explore musch places just because that u are been upto every corner make you explore the same stuffs again and again . That slowly tiers your egar . That’s why I needed CHANGE .
So hesitatingly I accepted my dad’s offer to become a part of a change in another society to get better .

Infact when I knew the change ill get on coming to Kerala will be of a great level it hit the best half of my life .
## by Jovinjith Kennedy ##