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Season 1 :  Turning Point 

# Turning Point #

Episode : 2

### The Reason to Change ### 
I don’t know if you do that or not  but if someone tells me that I have changed alot then I’ll be like what nooo I never change . But inside I’ll be like wow she noticed about my hair got longer . ” No , she is not talking about my hair ” but she her self would Never know what is the change it us who have to figure it out and here’s a tip for u if someone says this just tell them that yah u r ri8 I have got meaner or say stuffs bad about yourself they’ll start praising you.  
Change is not bad it’s essential to change . But make sure it’s a good change change like how I used to think that I had to change myself to do good. Stuffs . I have made many mistakes in life as growing up and I ain’t shy of it.  Yeah I mean i have done that . I know what you guys are wondering yes I used to pee in my bed at night . And only if I had. Thought for myself that no it’s ok it’s that I am different from others and encouraged myself to do so I mi8 not be in this situation I am ri8 now .  So jokes aside . It’s real if people don’t change Thier life style according to get better there Is no point of a better life . 
I always loved change and I always had it in my DNA In fact I used to make my dad change my diper every now and then . 
I have been through a lot of changes in my life some have been pleasant some just heart breaking.  Some non affective some useless .  If I want it to be more dramatic I could say that things get rough and when it gets rough u need to rumble through the hurdles that’s called change and all but no it’s simple as life essentials . 
The latest change in my life has been of moving from Gujarat to Kerala . I have only been around very little Time in Kerala which is my birthplace and then I has to move to Gujarat . See just after my birth I faced change . Then now after many years of life like after I am 18 am back to Kerala .
I love that I have been lucky to spend time in Kerala and have a great time2 yeah . Where as being in a the same place and not able to explore musch places just because that u are been upto every corner make you explore the same stuffs again and again . That slowly tiers your egar . That’s why I needed CHANGE . 
So hesitatingly I accepted my dad’s offer to become a part of a change in another society to get better . 

 Infact when I knew the change ill get on coming to Kerala will be of a great level it hit the best  half of my life . 
## by Jovinjith Kennedy ##

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Season 1   : Turning Point 

# Turning Point #

Episode 1

### My Life in Gujarat ### 
I Don’t know about my other friends who lived in both places , but for me here it’s a much difference in the daily life Kerala and Gujarat  for me it feels day and night , I’ll start from the life there infact I’ll just let you know about the life in Gujarat  I had . 

I was a part of a football team Christ United’ FC so we had to pretty much wake around 4 : 30 . I wasn’t always like this . We all played alot  we used to start at 5: 00 officially but in reality it would be around 6 : 00 . No so we used to play 4: 30 to 7: 30 too sometimes . Then I would head back home all tired and then would be me taking a five to six power naps – breakfast – chat with dad- brother disappeared to school- then children start coming – then after everyone is busy – I will ready  to Leave and just set for someone from  my friends circle to pick me up , I’ll take my camera along with me . We roam around we shoot,  we hustle , we live the society , we have the typical teen age fun but we don’t . 
That would be something any one would say but in actually we are trying to break the ice in the society meet new people and learn the society to find some way to find a loop hole in it and stick our knowledge into it . ( If u get me just dm me ) 
So Gujarat it’s not like any other part of the nation . If u are in Gujarat and you don’t know or are not influenced by the business field either you are an alien or u just don’t understand . Because gujjus would feel bad if u make fun of them the just know that it will be a place of marketing for them . 
Where as I was a Malayali the topicaly pride filled egoist of knowledge creater that’s what I thought just because I was one . ( Dont judge me I was just a teenager so I had to see the world yet ) .

But I was lucky that I had a business washed son of business man the one and only  Jovin . Vijay  no he is not the son of Vijay Mallya , that’s Vijay Johnson , I guess . 
He was a typical  Gujarati WANNABE Malayali listen to awesome songs he was is the one who made me listen to Arabic and I don’t regret a bit . And I don’t know where I got rubbed of with this idea  but I ## Always placed the reason for me to get to the position more than that of the position itself ## 
Gujarat has been my majority of life but somewhere around I have been always seeing the place itself as an outsider . I love being called a Gujarati but  somewhere I don’t feel like I am a Gujarati . 

But this way of me finding Loop holes in the society led me to stay out of house . For like most of the day ( just home for food ) sometimes not even that . But I do regret it sometimes (sometimes ) . It was not like an always thing for my parents to give me a freedom but I carved my way out from Thier bond led to scars but it sure heals and gets stronger  .
## by Jovinjith Kennedy ##

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Jos Blog I started it in a stage of my life when I was a little confused about my 

Now it is more Clear Coming  To Kerala has been a thought changer in my life . I have been close to my dad’s culture deeply . I think i need to share it to the world too and also learn it more deeply . 

So I decided to start with a new focused mind regarding me exploring my own culture and ethnicity . 

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World of Jo 

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Floody Disaster : ep . 2. Effects on Individual Psychology

Effects of a natural calamity or disaster on a individual may affect the future and a good citizen as such and productivity of a nation in whole hence each and every life of a individual is supposed to be in good health for the nation to progress.

  1. Individual
  • The emotional response of a disaster affected individual is highly strong and extreme comparatively higher than unaffected person.
  • Sometimes they face a state of Denial and Shock of the state as for the feeling of not being able to do or not accepting the occurrence of a calamity .
  • Numbness and emptiness in life and in the further life time .
  • Traumatic life experience may lead to a traumatic state for us to fall in deep depression and feeling on loneliness .

2. Emotional

  • Shock – disbelief at what happened and not able to accept the occurrence . Feeling numb , as if the life they are have is an suspended reality
  • Fear – of reoccurrence of the safety of oneself or ones family and apparently unrelated fears .
  • Anger– at the causation of the event sometimes turning against God or Government causing it to happen . About the injustice that occurred and the senseless of it all that occurred .
  • Sadness – about the losses of both human and material as for the hardwork they had to go through to receive it . The feeling of lack of safety and security and confidence . Feeling of depressions of others .
  • Shame – for being appeard helpless or emotional at the time of need of courage . For being powerless infront of the nature .
  • Sleep – ( yeah sleep is also a emotional aspect ) difficulty in sleep due to intrusive thoughts and occurred disaster . Restless and disruptive sleep .

3. Physical Problem

  • Active fright mechanism in body higher attentionspan and easily starting from noise.
  • General agitation and muscle tension due to possible lack of nutrition for a prolonged period .
  • Easy palpitations trembling and sweating due to body being frightened for a long period .
  • More possibility of breathing issues like Asthama . And also higher respiration .
  • Nausea , Diarra or constipation and many digestive and physical signs and symptoms due to prolonged stress .

4.Thinking

  • Memories . Frequent thoughts or images of the incidents .
  • Thoughts or images of other frightening events and memories m
  • Flashbacks or a feeling of reliving the experience .
  • Attempts to forget the painfull memories .
  • Dreams and Nightmares about the disaster and bad experiences about what happened reminded .
  • Difficulty in taking simple decisions which can take more time in comparison with the people who have not been affected .
  • Inability to concentrate on a particular interest or task .
  • Severe memory issues and long time memory issues .

5. Behavioral

  • Social – social isolation from others due to lack of confidence or self blaming nature .Lose of interest in Daily activities and hobbies that were important in their characteristics.
  • Work – not wanting to go to work or school or college and lack of motivation in general for anything . Lack of productivity and other issues .
  • Habits – Increase use of alcohol drugs . Loss of appetite or increase in appetite of eating habits . Lose in interest in enjoyable activities . Lose in sexual interest .

All these are the results of individual behavioural science and hence it will affect if the individual was normal then it might make him abnormal . ( Inshort this is only applicable for normal human beings )

Up coming Blog how to fight against it effectively . 

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